The Dog

This was written by a good friend.

"I was not a good boy in my past and I have wanted to help the young ladies I hurt with my selfishness. I would like to take the time to apologize to you for all the males because we do not have to be this way because of our insecurities. We do not need to control you because that does not love you.

Let me tell you about a type of male I call the Dog! He is really good. He knows just how to sniff you out. In a short time he can sniff out all your desires and in a short time can make the relationship warm and loving (or so you will think it is).

Most of the time he is trying to get you to bed, when he gets the sex then things begin to change, you have been conquered. Usually he runs on to find someone else to play this ritual on, sometimes he will keep you in his cage (marriage) or his little black book (touch up sex) but most of the time he is gong to go play with others.

The only way to defeat this rascal is to have a plan in the beginning of your relationships.

1. Plan to date longer than one year. He is working on a much shorter time table. If he can't really date you and spend time with you then ask the real questions of why? Do not run from the truth of your answers because of the lure for togetherness.

2. Plan to not have sex all the time you are dating. He is living on basic instincts and is not really being a human being.

3. Have safe male friends that you can bring this person around to check out. These are usually family but do not forget the family of God.

Most times the Dog does not plan that far out and will not hang around to capture the Real Jewel Your Heart and Your Love."