From the book, "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin De Becker:
Be aware of signs that might put you in danger:
1.) Forced Teaming: "We" instead of "you." Shared purpose or experience where none exists.
2.) Charm and Niceness: "He was so nice..." Niceness does NOT equal goodness.
3.) Too Many Details: Trying to convince you. When people tell the truth, they don't feel doubted.
4.) Typecasting: Labeling in a slightly critical way, so you feel compelled to prove them wrong ("You're not very friendly..." etc.)
5.) Loan Sharking: Lending or offering help and expecting to collect on it.
6.) Unsolicited Promise: A person promises something when he/she sees you aren't convinced.
7.) Discounting the Word "No:" "No" should mean "no."
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